We Are Saving

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Quitting your job that you hate makes you feel great. Moreover, if you don’t have to work and can stay at home, spend some time as a stay at home wife makes you feel like in heaven. But one thing starts to go round your head; will you be able survive on one income?

After i quit my job, everyone told me not to find another one immediately. Even my father said, this is a once in a lifetime chance, stay for a while, get rest, discover the pleasure of being a housewife. ( yes most of the men think being an housewife is a pleasure…)

Anyway, I decided to give myself a job-free year and stay at home. Of course I was lucky because my husband is so considerate and gentle, he agreed with the idea. ( Ok, talking about the delicious home cooked dinners every night helped me a lot! ) 

First we asked each other the same question:  “Will we be able to go of it on one salary?”

To be honest, we still don’t know the answer. It’s been two and a half months since I quit my job. Luckily we dont have children and we are not into the idea of a child. But we do want to buy a house, change our car and start saving money for the future. We know that we have to get used to living with less money and it won’t be easy. We have to sacrifice certain things in our lives. We know,  we need to be more careful about our budget. There will be some cut outs with no doubt. Such as not driving to work or to visit friends. Instead, using bus transportation. For me,  unconscious and online shopping must come to an end. I can’t think of a great time for me to get rid of this addiction and start saving some money. (I remember my 31 Things Before 31 just below!) 

When you think, there are lots of simple things you can do as cut outs even at home. We started with not dining out. I am not saying we’ll never eat out but you can’t believe how much you can save when you have home cooked dinner as well as knowing what you eat and eating healthy. We are not giving up on our favorite restaurants but we hope to miss their dishes and make It special when we get there. Sure there are things you should do as part of global awareness like, for energy saving turning off the lights and benefit more from the sunshine. Turning off your computer, TV when you are not in front of them. Unplugging appliances do save energy! I started to unplug our hairdryer in bathroom, even our night lamps! Its true that you can reduce your bills if you run your washing machine or dishwasher at night. ( Unless you’re sure you don’t disturb your neighbours.) Now I have a laundry “night”  and if It’s not urgent I dont use my washing machine except these days. Mr.T doesn’t know  but I’m thinking about a shower time limit haha.

If you check out this graphics about households’ energy consumption, I’m being smart when I make my coffee in the morning,  keeping It in my coffee thermos and not using my kettle more than once. All these may sound silly to you but in long terms,  you can save a serious amount! Starting from this month, I will track our bills and see if we can do it or not. 

We are also more careful about our grocery and supermarket shopping. It’s been almost 4 months that we stopped buying junk good. It was for our way of healthy life but I can’t believe how much we used to pay for all those shit every month! There are certain things that I can not choose a cheaper one instead such as my detergent or my softener. ( I’m a virgo…) But I can go for a cheaper kitchen sponge or a trash bag. I dont have to use the most expensive aluminium foil to wrap mr. T’s sandwiches for breakfast. I realised that, by eliminating unnecessary purchases,  I can buy the boots I saw in Modcloth!  Haha I’m kidding. or may beeee???

We know that there are sacrifices to make if we want to live this way, but if  not to buy a pair of expensive shoes instead of running up credit card debts is a sacrrifice, we are happily making this sacrifice!

We’ll see what happens. I hope i dont need to get a job and be able to live my one year dream.

Love,
F.

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4 thoughts on “We Are Saving

  1. Hello! This is my first visit to your blog! We are
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  2. Hi – Glad you like that photo of the woman vacuuming with the world on her shoulders. I am the creator of that image, which is registered with the United States Copyright Office. It should not be used without permission, but at the very least, it should have my photo credit. I am a professional artist – I work very hard on my imagery. Please be respectful of artists and their hard work. It takes a few seconds to grab an image, but it took me countless hours, creativity, and resource to make this. Thank you. Grace Weston http://www.graceweston.com

  3. Hello, as you can see I wrote ” Photo source unknown” under your image. I always give the link or the source of the images i use (if it’s known). I “respect” artists. You could have politely mention that you are the owner of the image. Artists like you make me dislike artists like you :) Have a good day Mrs. Artist.

  4. I am sorry but the first thing you mention shouldn’t be ” My image is registered with the United States Copyright Office” like a threat. I say again, I ALWAYS give the source of the images I use and if I don’t know, I write “source unknown” under the image.( like i did in yours). If you have checked any other posts, you could see them. You don’t have the right to tell me to “be respectful” because AGAIN, I’m respectful to any kind of artists and their rights. Everyone, any kind of artists must seek their rights especially through the internet when it comes to their work. I removed your image and I’m sorry that I didn’t know the source. If I knew I’d absolutely give your link.

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